The self confidence of the warrior is not the self-confidence of the average man. The average man seeks certainty in the eyes of the onlooker and calls that self-confidence. The warrior seeks impeccability and calls that humbleness in his own eyes. The average man is hooked to his fellow man, while the warrior is hooked to infinity.
Carlos Castenada

This beautiful statement can be looked at as truly taking refuge in the way. Infinity presents itself to the warrior in the unknowable immeasurable reality of her  life.
As she travels her way she is accountable to no one but her true self.  This way is beyond spirituality or logic.
The warrior hones the whetstone of her spirit.
The wind of the way drives her home for no reason at all.